Ukwethembeka, ukubheka igajethi enjalo, ingasaphathwa isithakazelo sobulili, akulula ukuphefumula. Futhi lapho ujuluka kakhulu futhi ekugcineni ugcwalisa le nto, uzodumala. Abathengi be Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan babecabanga ukuthi banganelisa kalula isifiso sabo sokulawula, kodwa babengalindele ukudlalwa ngothando lomhlukumezi wamandla aphezulu noma umqondo wokushintshisana ngenani awunakugwenywa, ongehlukile othandweni lwezwe.
NgoSepthemba 2017, imboni yodoli yokulingisa eCalifornia, eU.SA. Isithombe sephrofayili. Uthe umbono wokuthi abantu nezinto zingashintshwa uyinkinga, "Sibheke esikweni lapho...ucansi luchazwa ngaphandle kobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Lokhu akulona ucansi nonodoli: lokhu ukushaya indlwabu. "Richardson wabuye waveza ukuthi onodoli abaningi bocansi babukeka njengobuhle, futhi ubudlova konodoli bobulili bunencazelo engokomfanekiso yobudlova kubantu, okungamukeleki futhi okungase kubonise ezinye izinkinga.
Umongameli wendawo, umbulali uMatt, ngisakhetha umuntu engizozijabulisa. Futhi ngesizathu esithile, ikhasi lemininingwane yentombazane linezithombe ze-Meimei kuphela, nowesilisa Unodoli wezocansi weTpe ikhasi lidinga ukuphelezelwa ikhophi yefeni. Nginomuzwa wokuthi umenzi angase abe nokungaqondi okuthile mayelana nezithakazelo zobulili zabesifazane. Noma kunjalo, ngizimele kuphela, futhi angifuni ukuzenza indoda yomhlaba wonke, noma ukuba yindoda yezulu.
Ngenxa yesidingo esijwayelekile sokwakha kabusha amadolobha nengqalasizinda, ngeminyaka yawo-1950, ngokubuyiselwa kwangemva kwempi, izindawo eziningi zaqala ukuchuma futhi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukucekelwa phansi kwamandla amadala kanye nokuqedwa kwemibono emidala kwaholela ekuthuthukisweni okusheshayo kwemibono emisha, kuhlanganise nomqondo wenkululeko yobulili kanye nenkululeko yobulili. Unodoli Wothando. Ngalesi sikhathi, umphakathi uyachuma futhi abantu banesikhathi esiningi sokungcebeleka, kodwa nakuba ingcebo yezinto ezibonakalayo inala, umhlaba kamoya uya ngokuya ungenalutho, futhi abantu abaningi bazizwa benesizungu.
Udinga ubudlelwano obunciphile, izifiso zenyama eziphansi neziphansi, futhi abaningi bavame ukuba abangashadile. Ngisho impilo yocansi ayisamdingi umuntu ophilayo. U-Kanaris, umqondisi we-Center for Psychological Services eNew York, uthe amadoda amahle akhetha ukuba nobuhlobo nonodoli abangaphili be-silicone ngoba "abanayo impendulo engokomzwelo noma yomuntu siqu."
Nokho, ukusetshenziswa kwangempela onodoli bezocansi abashibhile kuyehluka ngokwamasiko namasiko. Isibonelo, e-Japan, onodoli bendabuko bangalandelelwa emuva enkathini ka-Jomon (10,500 BC300 BC) futhi babesetshenziswa njengezinto zokuzivikela, imikhosi yenkolo, namathoyizi. E-Afrika, kunezinhlobo eziningi zonodoli, ngamunye unezinzuzo zawo. Eziningi zisetshenziselwa ukujabulisa abantu abahle. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi unodoli uyisithunywa sikaNkulunkulu namadlozi. Amasiko amaningi ase-Afrika nawo anonodoli bokuzalwa, abasetshenziswa njengengxenye yemikhosi.
