Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami; ngonyaka odlule ngimakele ukubamba iqhaza ezitolo zezimpahla zokugqoka, angicabangi ukuthi ngihlela ukumshiya kulo nyaka. Ngithanda ukuzama izinketho ezihlanyayo futhi ngilingise imibhalo ehlukene naye. Eqinisweni, ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho, sathenga iqoqo lezingubo ezazihluke ngokuphelele onodoli bezocansi abashibhile kulokho ebesikucabanga ngaphambi kokuphuma. Ngachitha amaholide amabili kaKhisimusi noJasmine futhi sobabili sasigqoke njengoSanta Claus. Sihlala sosa inyama ngemuva kwendlu, sijabulela ilanga, futhi vele sithatha izithombe ezinhle.
Phela, akukho lutho olungaqhathaniswa nobusuku obuhle futhi ubuke i-movie oyikhonzile ngodoli wakho wocansi. Khetha imuvi elungele noma yiliphi iholide, futhi nijabulele ukwesaba okupholile noma okwesabekayo ndawonye. Ungabuka imuvi ekhaya, noma ungasebenzisa isikhathi ukwakha ithiyetha ye-DIY elula ngemuva. Hlela konke futhi ungakhohlwa ukufaka indawo yomlilo ukuze ugcine indawo ifudumele.
Ukukhuphuka nokuwa kwezindawo ezidayisa ngonodoli bocansi? Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, i-intanethi igcwele izihloko mayelana nokuvulwa kwama-brothel onodoli bocansi, ngokuvamile ngempumelelo enkulu ngaphambi noma ngemva kokuvalwa. Umbuzo-ke uthi, ngabe izingqalabutho zalezi zinkampani zibhidliza izindonga zemboni esezoyiqala, noma yizinkampani ezingakwazi ukusimama zizohluleka? Ezweni lapho ungakwazi ukuthenga customizable ngokugcwele I-WM Doll ngokuchofoza okukodwa nje, zingaqhudelana kanjani izifebe ezigxile konodoli?
Kungani umuntu aye endaweni yokuthengisa ngonodoli ngoba ekwazi ukuthenga unodoli ozomgcina ekhaya? Lapho uFabrice Jacobs evula eyokuqala Unodoli Wothando eBelgium ngo-2018, wayengenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi lo mbono uzophumelela, kodwa waqale wamangala uxhaso. "Bengingalindele ukuphumelela nhlobo ..." utshele iBrussels Times ngo-2019.
Uma ufuna ukonga isikhala, enye inketho ongayicabangela ngonodoli abahle bocansi. Lezi zilungele abantu abafuna izinto okulula kakhulu ukuzigcina, kulula ukuzihlanza, nezinyakazayo futhi ziziphathe kalula. Uma ufuna ukuthenga unodoli wakho wokuqala, lesi yisiqalo esihle. Banikeza izitho zangasese zangempela kanye nolwazi olumangalisayo locansi.
Uma ufuna okuhlangenwe nakho okuyiqiniso ngokuphelele, uzofuna ukuthola unodoli ogcwele ubulili. Alingana nosayizi nezilinganiso njengabesifazane abangabantu, futhi ahlinzeka ngemifanekiso efana nempilo yazo zonke izingxenye zomzimba. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwezocansi abakunikezayo kusondele kulokho a Idoli locansi lowesilisa angahlinzeka. Ngezinsiza ezifanele nokwenza ngendlela oyifisayo, uzothola unodoli wangempela ofaneleka kakhulu.
