Vumela imibono engaguquki isho lokho abafuna ukukusho, futhi akudingekile ukuthi uhlehle noma ugweme ukuzisiza ujabulele isipiliyoni esimangalisayo esinganikezwa ngonodoli bocansi. Kubantu abaningi, into abayifunayo othandweni noma yokuqomisana ucansi uqobo. Ukuhambela yonke le micimbi, ukuya ngezinsuku ezingaboni ngaso linye, nokuswayiphela kwesokunxele nakwesokudla kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana kuwukukhululeka kwezocansi. Nakuba konke lokhu kuletha umthwalo osindayo, onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ungabi nazindophi, kodwa zizokulethela injabulo enkulu.
Uma uyindoda nowesifazane abangashadile, ukhathele ukuthola umlingani wocansi njalo lapho ulambile, khona-ke onodoli bocansi bayisinqumo esiphelele sokukhululwa kwakho. Akudingeki ugqoke kahle, ulinde amahora amaningi ezindaweni zokudlela ezisezingeni eliphezulu, noma uchithe imali eningi ngezipho zedethi ezibizayo, ushesha ukushesha. Uma imidlalo ethile ingalufanele uhlobo lwakho, akumele ube nezingxoxo ezingakahleleki noma ukudumazeka. Ungakwazi ukudlulisa kalula zonke izici zomlingani wakho wocansi wamaphupho emnyango wakho.
Ukukopela kuyisenzo sabanye abantu abakhethayo kunomunye. Kuyajabulisa, kuyajabulisa, futhi akuvumelekile, konke okwengeza injabulo ebudlelwaneni bakho. Sengikushilo lokho, kungani umuntu engafuna ukuqeda ubudlelwano bakhe ngenxa yento angayibalekela ngokushesha? Onodoli bocansi banikeza enye indlela ejabulisayo yokulala nabanye. Unodoli Wothando ziyajabulisa ngoba zibandakanya inani elithile lobungozi, futhi zihlinzeka ngezinto ezihlukile. Isibonelo, ungathenga isidlidlizi noma uthole isidlidlizi ngeposi. Uma unquma ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi nabanye abantu, kulungile, kodwa kuthiwani uma uthola isidlidlizi ngeposi futhi akekho owaziyo?
Kukhona njalo ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi othile athathe ifoni yakho futhi athole ukuthi uyakopela. Lena yindlela evame kakhulu abantu ababanjwa ngayo. Noma ngabe uqaphe kangakanani, abantu bangathola ukuthi awuthembekile kumlingani wakho. Lesi yisimo ongeke ufune ukuwela kuso. Nge Idoli locansi lowesilisa, akekho ozokwazi ikhubalo nemicabango yakho yocansi, ngoba uzoba namathoyizi akho esikhundleni somunye umuntu ongena ephuma endaweni yakho.
Onodoli bethu bocansi base-Asia bafanele wonke umuntu, ukuntula isipiliyoni socansi, i-social phobia kanye nokukhubazeka ngokomzimba. Ingabe uhlobo oluthile lomuntu aluthengi noma lusebenzise onodoli bocansi? Noma ubani nawo wonke umuntu, kusukela kubantu abavamile kuya kubantu abathanda kakhulu onodoli bocansi be-TPE abathile, bangazuza futhi bazozuza ngokusungula ukuxhumana komuntu siqu nothando nonodoli bocansi . Lab’ onodoli benza abantu abangaphilile ngokomzimba nabakhubazekile; i-social phobias; kanye nalabo abaxhumana nabanye abantu ezingeni elijulile nelomuntu siqu ukuze bahlole ubudlelwano bocansi okungenzeka bangabi nalo ithuba noma ikhono labo.
Ama-Asian ethu amahle namaJapani Unodoli wezocansi bazimisele futhi balungele ukwenza noma yini ekujabulisayo, futhi bahlala bekulungele ukuvuma nokwenza. Uma unokubhukha noma ungakwazi ukucela umlingani wakho ukuthi enze isenzo socansi noma ubufebe obuthandayo, ungasebenzisa unodoli wakho wocansi ukuze uhlangabezane nezidingo zakho ngaphandle kokwenza izinqumo noma ukubeka imingcele noma imingcele.
