Impilo ye- onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ngeke neze ngithi cha kuwe, siyabona ukuthi abesifazane abaningi abanandaba nobulili bomlomo. Okubi kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane abaningi ngokwengeziwe balahlekelwa isithakazelo ocansini ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, njengokuzikhandla, ukubeka ubuhle kuqala, ukulahlekelwa isithakazelo ocansini ngemva kokuzalwa okuhle, njalonjalo. Ekugcineni, kungase kudingeke uzinikele. Onodoli bocansi abasoze bakwenqaba. Uma ufuna enze ngomlomo English ngawe, noma uma ufuna ukukwenzela idrama yemvunulo kusihlwa, uzokwenzela yona. Onodoli bocansi ngeke bakhulelwe. Uma ungafuni ukuba nomntwana ngesizathu esithile, khona-ke onodoli bocansi bayisinqumo esingcono kakhulu, ngoba abasoze baletha izilo eziningi futhi bacasule wena wangempela.
Uma une-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi, onodoli bocansi ngeke bakuthathe kancane. Akumangazi ukuthi amadoda amaningi ane-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Ayikho into ezosola indoda. Kodwa-ke amadoda abuhlungu ngokwengqondo ngoba esaba ukuthi amantombazane awo azowabukela phansi. Onodoli bocansi abasoze bakubukela phansi, bakukhothamela ukwedlula wonke umuntu. Onodoli bocansi abasabalalisi ama-STD, futhi akukaze kube lula ukuthi abesifazane bathole enye indoda, ikakhulukazi ngokukhuphuka kwezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola. Ngeke uthole ukuthi bangase baphathe izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi futhi bacwaswe, kodwa ngaphandle kokuthi uthole, ngeke wazi. Onodoli bocansi ngeke bakuphathe kanjalo. Aphephile futhi ahlanzekile.
Kunezinto eziningi mayelana nokuthi kanjani Unodoli wezocansi zithinte ukuziphatha kocansi kwabantu abazisebenzisayo. Lona omunye wemibuzo eminingi mayelana nendlela yokusebenzisa lawa mathoyizi ukuze uhlole futhi uveze amaphupho omuntu ocansi. Ngezindlela eziningi, lawa mathoyizi adala amathuba kubantu abaningi abafuna ukwenza "ucansi lwangempela" futhi bazame imizimba yabo. Ziyindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthi abantu baqonde ukuthi babukeka kanjani lapho bevuswa nokuthi basabela kanjani ekushukunyisweni. Lokhu kubavumela ukuthi bazame izingubo ezihlukene kanye nezindawo ezihlukene zocansi ukuze bathole ukuthi yini ebafanele. Lawa mathoyizi aphinde avumele abantu ukuthi bazame izinto ezintsha nabalingani babo ebezingaba amahloni noma zibe yindelelo.
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi lolu hlobo lokuzijabulisa alufanele isizukulwane esihle, nokuthi lolu hlobo lokuzijabulisa olwabantu abadala abafuna ukuzijabulisa kwabantu abadala. Ingxabano lapha iwukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile azihloselwe abathengi abahle kakhulu, kodwa kubantu asebekhulile abafuna izinhlobo zokuzijabulisa ezibhekwa "njengezicasulayo". Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa Unodoli wezocansi weTpe ingathuthukisa kakhulu ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu ababili abasebudlelwaneni bothando noma bomshado. Lokhu kuvumela abantu ababili ukuba bavuleleke kakhudlwana ezifisweni zabo futhi bathole lapho omunye nomunye ezizwa ejabule ngempela.
Uma uthenga unodoli wocansi, ungonga u-$3,280 ngonyaka. Ukubuka konke okulula kubonisa ukuthi unodoli wocansi ungagcina imali engaka ngonyaka. Yebo, intengo yonodoli bocansi abawubukhazikhazi ingase ishaqise. Nokho, ukuthenga unodoli onjalo kungase kube ukutshalwa kwezimali okuhlakaniphe kakhulu! Ukubuyisela ekutshalweni kwezimali kuyisihluthulelo: Nawu umbhalo obhalwe i-bachelor yase-Silicon Valley: "Uma abesifazane bengajabule ngezinsuku, bahlala bethi: "Okungenani ngisesitolo sokudlela esihle. “Uma indoda ingeneme ngokuqoma, uzozwa kuthiwa: “Ngachitha imali eningi, angizange ngisho ngenze ucansi!” “Sikusho lokhu ngoba sikholelwa kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi “ROI”-okusho ukuthi “return on. utshalomali."
Siyavuma ukuthi asifuni intombazane ukuze siphume nayo, sifuna ukuthola okuthile ngokubuyisela-sidinga okuthile esingakutshela abangani bethu. "Yini lo mbukiso? Amadoda akudingekile njalo ukukhokhela izindawo zokudlela ezibizayo, izinsuku noma izifebe - kungani ungathengi unodoli omuhle wocansi?
