Lokhu kuholela ebusweni obuhle futhi obungokoqobo bonodoli bocansi. Ezinye izici ezifana nezinwele namehlo nazo zithuthukisiwe kakhulu ukuze kukhiqizwe imikhiqizo esezingeni eliphezulu neyiqiniso. Lokhu kuthuthuka kuphinde kwaholela ekuthuthukisweni okukhulu kwezimbobo zocansi: umlomo, isitho sangasese sowesifazane, nezimbobo zendunu sekucishe kwashelela futhi kwaqina njengabesifazane bangempela. Ngenxa yalokhu kuthuthukiswa, ukuya ocansini no onodoli bezocansi abashibhile iye yaba mnandi futhi yaba namaqiniso kakhulu kunakuqala.
Kusukela ngo-2000, amakhasimende angakhetha isitayela sewigi, umbala wezinwele, umbala wamehlo, ithoni yesikhumba, umbala wezinzipho, usayizi nezinye izici eziningi. Ngakho-ke, 100% onodoli bothando abahlukile banga-oda. Ukuba ngokoqobo okumangalisayo kwalab’ onodoli abasha bangempela kwaholela ekwakhekeni kwegama elithi unodoli wangempela. Labo nodoli bavamise ukuba nezinto zikagesi ezishumekiwe zokububula ngesikhathi socansi kanye nesistimu yokushisisa isikhumba engafinyelela ku-98.6°F (37°C), njengabesifazane bangempela. Sekuyinsakavukela umchilo wesidwaba ukuthunyelwa kwale mikhiqizo ngezimpahla zangempela zabesifazane, futhi amakhasimende agqokisa onodoli bawo njengabangempela. Njengoba ungacabanga, izingubo zakho ozithandayo zonke zihlobene nemicabango evamile yocansi: abahlengikazi, amantombazane amahle aseJapane, izikhonzi zendiza, amantombazane asehhovisi, njll.
Ngakho, ingabe abantu bayathenga Idoli locansi lowesilisa ukuze babukeke ngendlela engokoqobo, ukungabi nasithakazelo ezithembisweni ezingokomzwelo zabanye, noma imiphumela abangayithola ngokusebenzisa onodoli bobulili? Impendulo efanele yiyo yonke engenhla. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abantu benesithakazelo kumanodoli ocansi. Abanye abantu bathanda ngempela onodoli babo futhi bacabange ukuthi bangabalingani bobulili bangempela, kuyilapho abantu abaningi besacabanga ukuthi basetshenziselwa ukwanelisa ucansi kuphela.
Imuphi umthelela omkhulu wokusetshenziswa njalo konodoli bocansi? Izinga lethonya elingatholwa ngokusetshenziswa Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan namathoyizi ocansi ahlukahlukene njalo ancike kakhulu kubantu abawasebenzisayo. Kodwa-ke, eminye yemiphumela evamile yokusebenzisa onodoli bocansi njalo ihlanganisa ukwaneliseka okuphezulu kocansi, ukuzuza ukuzethemba okukhulu, kanye nesifiso esikhulu socansi kwabesilisa nabesifazane.
Akudingekile ukuba ube nezifiso zocansi eziphakeme ngendlela engavamile ukuze uthole ukuthi unobudlelwano nabantu izifiso zabo ezingahambisani nezakho. Abalingani abaningi besilisa banokukhubazeka kocansi kuphela. Kubantu besilisa abaningi, lesi yisimo esidumaza kakhulu. Abaningi bala madoda bathembeke ngokuphelele kubalingani babo, ngakho bazithola bedonsa kanzima ngesidingo sokwaneliseka ngokocansi kanye nesidingo sokwethembeka ebudlelwaneni babo. Yiqiniso, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kukhungatheka kungabangela kalula amadoda ukuba akhohlise, okungaba yingozi kulobu budlelwano. Nganoma yisiphi isizathu, uma umlingani wakho engafuni noma engakwazi ukuya ocansini, ungakwazi ukuxazulula inkinga yokuntuleka kocansi empilweni yakho, noma ungabheka ucansi ngaphandle kobudlelwane. Okungenani, bekulokhu kunjalo kuze kube manje.
Manje ungathenga Unodoli wezocansi weTpe. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuthi wenze ucansi nokwaneliseka ngokomzimba ngaphandle kokushiya ubuhlobo. Ngisho noma umlingani wakho engakwazi noma engafuni ukukunika, lena yindlela yokwenza ucansi. Abukho ubungozi, abukho ithuba lokwethula isifo, azikho izinkinga zomona (okungenani ngokuvamile ngokuvamile), futhi akukho lutho kodwa wena ugcina ubuhlobo bakho ngenkathi uthola ukwaneliseka ngokocansi okudingayo. Kwezinye izimo, njengomlingani ogulayo noma omunye umuntu obalulekile, umlingani ogulayo uvuma ngokugcwele nangokubonga komunye umuntu ukuthi athole unodoli wocansi. Kulokhu, imibhangqwana eminingi ibheka onodoli bocansi njengesixazululo esiseduze senkinga. Impela, futhi ingakusiza ukuthi ujabule ongakaze ube nabo isikhathi eside.
