Ngokuwohloka kwemindeni nokunamathiselwe ezinkolweni okwakuqinisekisa ukuxhumana komunye nomunye, ukuba nomlingani wocansi othandanayo onodoli manje sekubonakala njengokuphela kwekhambi lesizungu. Izingosi zokuqomisana eziku-inthanethi zinikeza amadoda anesizungu aneminyaka ephakathi nendawo ithuba lokuhlangana nabanye onodoli bocansi abangenawo amakhono okwakha nokugcina ubungane noma abanezinhlelo ezimatasa futhi abangenaso isikhathi sokuxhumana nabanye. Kulokhu, i-inthanethi ingaba wusizo kakhulu, hhayi nje kuphela ukubalekela isizungu, kodwa futhi nokuhlangana nomngane onodoli wocansi wesikhathi eside obukade umfuna.
Ngokocwaningo, u-17% wemishado uwumphumela wokuqomisana nge-inthanethi. Umangele? Nokho, nakuba lokhu kumelela ukukhula phakathi neminyaka, inani lobungane obunempilo nobukhona ngenxa yamasayithi e-inthanethi likhulu nakakhulu. Lokhu onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ukusebenzisana kuya ngokwandayo ngokwandayo, futhi ayanda amasayithi odoli ocansi ahlanganayo ayavela ukuze ahlangabezane nesidingo esikhulayo.
abantu abadala abahle abaseminyakeni lapho bengaba abazali kodwa abangakaneliseki ngokugcwele uma kuziwa ocansini kanye nobulili okwamanje yisigaba esiphezulu sabathengi bonodoli bocansi, futhi ngesizathu esihle. Ukukopela nokukhohlisa akudumile njengoba kwakunjalo ngonyaka noma emibili edlule. Ukusebenzisa i-hyper-realistic I-WM Doll njengendlela yokuhlola ukuthanda kwakho kwezocansi nokungamthandi kuyindlela ephelele yokuthola umaqondana obukade ufisa ukumzama kodwa ongakamtholi umaqondana ozosebenza naye. Abantu abaningi abahle babona ubulili njengendlela yokukhuluma futhi ababoni inkinga ngakho.
Amadoda amaningi awaqiniseki ngokuthi ubudlelwano busebenza kanjani kumongo wenganekwane. Bacabanga ukuthi bayakwazi ukulala nowesifazane, baye ocansini olungavikelekile, futhi abanalo uvalo lokuthi uzolimala. Yiqiniso, lokhu ukusabela okuvamile, kodwa kungase kube yinkinga. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ubudlelwano bakhelwe phezu kokwethembana, futhi Onodoli Abathandana Nabesifazane akusho ukuthi ilingana nesipho sokuphila. Uma ucabanga ukukopela ngoba awukwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwamaphupho akho nomlingani wakho wocansi lonodoli, zama ukukhuluma nabo mayelana nemicabango yakho, njengoba lokhu kungabaqinisekisa ukuthi akukho lutho okufanele ukhathazeke ngakho.
Ayikwazi ukusondela kunodoli kule ndawo
I-advantage yesitayela se-doggy ukuthi inhle kakhulu ukungena ngaphakathi kudoli wocansi, ilungele ukungena ngokushesha futhi iphushe unodoli, indawo enhle yokulala ocansini kunodoli, ububi ukuthi ngaphandle kokuthi uqaphele, ungalimaza amadolo unodoli wezocansi, kulokhu Isikhundla asikwazi ukusondela kunodoli, futhi ubuso bedoli abukwazi ukubonakala lapho kungena.
I-Cowgirl yindawo engcono kakhulu yocansi kulabo abafuna ucansi olukhululekile embhedeni. Futhi, ungangena ekujuleni ngaphakathi Izithande Zothando kulesi sikhundla. Indlela yokwenza i-cowgirl, ilele ngomhlane embhedeni. Beka unodoli wakho emzimbeni wakho. Manje, ngena kuye ngenkathi ulele embhedeni futhi uqhubeke nokungena, unodoli wocansi uguqa phezu kweqhude lakho, ungamsekela ngezandla zakho, noma ungene ngaphansi kwakhe.
