Ingabe amapharamitha womkhiqizo ekhasini lemininingwane yonodoli bocansi aphelele?

Ulwazi lwenqubomgomo yobumfihlo yomsebenzisi lubaluleke kakhulu. Itshela abathengi ukuthi ulwazi lwabo lomuntu siqu lusingathwa kanjani. Uma iwebhusayithi oyipheqululayo ingenayo imigomo nemibandela enjalo, iwebhusayithi kungenzeka iqoqe ulwazi lwakho ngezinye izinjongo. Ingabe amapharamitha womkhiqizo ekhasini lemininingwane yonodoli bocansi aphelele? Amapharamitha amaningi wewebhusayithi kanodoli akopishwa kwamanye amawebhusayithi. Akukho ukubambisana okuseduze phakathi kwabo, ngakho-ke ulwazi lwabo ngokuvamile alulungile noma aluphelele, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi amapharamitha we onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ziphelele ngaphambi kokuthenga unodoli.

Embikweni, wabhala: “Ingozi enkulu eParis ukwanda nokuba khona okungalawuleki kwezifebe.” Kuthiwa uHitler uwugunyazile umsebenzi wokunikeza onodoli amasosha, abafaka ojosaka futhi abavumele ukuba babagweme. Izifebe eParis. Kuthiwa uHitler ugunyaze lo msebenzi, futhi umklami waqala ukucabanga ngokudala unodoli ngaphansi kokuqondisa kwe-German Hygiene Museum. Ubufakazi obunamandla kakhulu balo msebenzi kube izithombe ezimbili okusolwa ukuthi zitakulwe emgqonyeni kadoti, kodwa kamuva kwabonakala kuwumkhonyovu.
Kuze kube manje, abasebenzi baseGerman Hygiene Museum abakakhumbuli ukuthi lo msebenzi wake waba khona lapho bebuzwa ngalo msebenzi.

Unodoli wezocansi aphinde ahlukaniswe abe izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene ngokwezici zawo ezingokomzimba, njengobude, ukuma komzimba, ukuma kwendondo, ubukhulu bebele, ibala lesikhumba, njll. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kunonodoli besifazane kuphela, unephutha. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zonodoli bocansi kwabesifazane, futhi amadoda nawo anonodoli bocansi, ngoba abesifazane, njengamadoda, badinga injabulo yocansi. Akekho ongaphika lokhu. Iwebhusayithi yonodoli bocansi ehlonishwa kakhulu inikeza izinhlobo ezimbili zonodoli besilisa ocansini kanye nabesifazane abanodoli bocansi.

Onodoli bobulili besilisa, njengabesifazane Unodoli wezocansi weTpe, abe nezici ezihlukahlukene, osayizi kanye nokwakheka. Banomzimba ochazwe kahle, ukubukeka kowesilisa kanye nobudoda obude, okuvumela ukuthi ukhiphe izikhathi eziningi emhlanganweni owodwa! Ingxenye engcono kakhulu-ngokungafani namadoda amaningi angempela, labo nodoli bobulili besilisa ngeke bahlanya ngemizuzwana engu-27!

Iqiniso liwukuthi abakwazi. Ngaphandle uma umcabango wakho ungaphezu kwalomhlaba, onodoli bocansi akusibo abangamadoda ufuna owesifazane ovelele. Ngakho yiziphi izinketho zakho? Ukulinda irobhothi locansi ngolunye usuku, kungenzeka kube nerobhothi locansi elingakunikeza ubukhona obubusayo obufisayo. Lawa marobhothi abukeka njengabantu bangempela, akhuluma njenge-dominatrix, futhi anamandla ngokwanele ukukubonisa ukuthi ubani umphathi ekamelweni. Uzokwazi ukumhlela ukuthi enze lokho kanye okufunayo, ukuze wazi ukuthi uzothola ulwazi olufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Kwabesilisa abathanda ukubhejwa kunokubhejwa, unodoli omuhle wocansi ngemikhono yangasese kungase kube okunye ukukhetha okuhle. Labo nodoli bocansi empeleni bayipiston ongakwazi ukulawula ijubane layo. Ukunamathiselwe kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kuzoshaya induku yakho ngokushesha noma kancane kuye ngezidingo zakho. Lokhu kuzolingisa umuzwa wentombazane egibele kuwe esikhundleni sokwenza wonke umsebenzi. Lokhu kungase kube ushintsho oluhle kumadoli ocansi, kufanele wenze okuningi kokuphakamisa okusindayo.