U-Aiwawa wanele ukusiza amadoda ukuthi azizwe ekhululeke ngokuphelele ngemuva kokuya ocansini nawo. Ukugcina umzimba wakho ukhululekile kubalulekile ukuhlala kude nokudangala futhi uphile impilo enempilo. Ngokukhetha isiJapane esikhangayo I-WM Doll eBaltimore, futhi ungasusa yonke ingcindezi yomsebenzi nezinkathazo zomhlaba wangaphandle.
Uma umehluko wokuphakama phakathi kwakho nonodoli wakho mkhulu, kungase kube amahloni noma kube nzima. Uma unodoli mude kunawe, vele uvule imilenze yakhe ibe banzi ngokwanele ukuvumela ukungena. I-spoon iyindawo yobulili obuseduze kakhulu. Uma ufuna ukuya ocansini nonodoli embhedeni, noma ufuna indawo esondelene kakhulu, khona-ke indawo yesipuni ilungele wena nonodoli wakho wocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ufuna ukuhamba nawo, vele uwafake esikhwameni esihle se-duffel futhi ungakwenza kalula.
Okokugcina, ukufinyeleleka kwayo. Ngenxa yobukhulu bazo obuhle nezinto zokwakha ezimbalwa, lezi onodoli bezocansi abashibhile onodoli ngokwedlulele. Uma unenhlanhla, ungathenga labo nodoli bezithandani ezinhle abangu-140 cm cishe u-60% wezindleko zikanodoli wocansi ongu-170 cm ophelele. Irobhothi elingumngane wocansi uSamantha lisindise umshado wakhe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lo mbhangqwana waqhubeka nokuthuthukisa amarobhothi ocansi abalingani babo, wengeza ukudlidliza kwe-builtin, okwenza onodoli babo bocansi bazwele futhi baphendule lapho bethinta, futhi bekholelwa ukuthi bazizwa besondelene kakhulu nento yangempela.
Uma usebenzisa onodoli bezocansi ekuhlanganyeleni ucansi, ukuphepha kuyinkinga ebaluleke kakhulu. Emahoreni ambalwa wenjabulo, awukwazi ukuthwala ingozi yokutheleleka noma izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Ngakho-ke, uma ungumthengi wedoli yocansi, qiniseka ukuthi ugcine amanye amathiphu okuphepha engqondweni. Skrolela phansi ukuze uhlole amathiphu amakhulu. Ukulahlekelwa ngabantu ababalulekile kungaba yinto engokomzwelo, futhi onodoli bezocansi abangokoqobo kungasindisa abantu esizungu nasosizini olulethwa yile lahleko.
Lokhu kungazwakala kungasile, kepha yini ebaluleke ngaphezu kokwenza abantu bajabule? Namuhla ngizokhuluma ngokuthi onodoli bezocansi basiza kanjani izinkulungwane zabantu ukuqeda ukudangala nokudabuka okubangelwa yisizungu noma ukulahlekelwa. Ufuna umlingani wesithandwa sakho? Bamba labonodoli bezocansi. Lezi zidoli zothando zilungiselelwe wena futhi zingakunika umuzwa wentombi, ngakho-ke uma ungenayo intombi, ungajabulela inkampani enhle kakhulu futhi uchithe isikhathi nabo. Uma ufuna babe embhedeni wakho, baseduze kwakho ngaphandle kokukubuza.
Intuthuko yakamuva kufayela le- tpe sex unodoli imakethe manje ivumela abathengi ukuthi benze ngokwezifiso onodoli babo. Izingxenye ezithile zedoli (njengezinwele) zingashintshwa ukuze zilungele ukuthanda kwabathengi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kunikeza abathengi ikhono lokwakha abalingani bomshado, futhi kunikeza nempilo ende unodoli wothando, ngoba abathengi bangakushintsha ukubukeka kukanodoli ngendlela abathanda ngayo. Lapho ikhasimende lama-urdolls lithumela i-imeyili echaza ukuthi unodoli wakhe wobulili umsize kangakanani, sabona le nzuzo engajwayelekile. Ngakho-ke, ngemvume yami (mbumbulu), ake sabelane ngendaba yakhe, ngethemba lokuthi abanye abantu abalahlekelwe ngabathandekayo babo bangafunda kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe.
